Things That You DON’T Need To Do Before Turning 30…

It’s a crazy idea to think that the world is your oyster but only until you’re 29 is a load of bull-sh*t. So enjoy these milestones that you DON’T need to have ticked off your list before 30, as you can and should be the version of yourself at any age.

When you’ve reached the ripe old age of 30 really have to mean retiring your bucket list, walking around with a zimmer frame or never experiencing a Glastonbury festival again.

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It doens’t matter if it’s backpacking through Asia, starting a family or getting married – you should only do things when they feel right for you, instead of just doing them because society or the internet made you believe that your tweenties are pinnacle of happeniess and success. So, please forget the 30 before 30 list, cos age is just a number and that it shouldn’t stop you from realising and fulfilling your dreams and ambitions.

  1. Have all your sh*t together all of the time. Firstly, if anyone say that they have their sh*t together they are 100%, as everyday, week and year presents new opportunity for growth. If everything stayed the same then there’s no room for development.
  2. Travel the world. If you love being a homebody, then be a homebody. Don’t feel like you have to travelling to experience a defining moment(s) in your life. Catchup with friends or go on a walk to your favourite park with you favourite people never looks the same. The view is constantly changing, so you can have revolutionary epiphanies in the most ordinary places.
  3. Spend excessive amounts of hours in the gym, just because you don’t want others to think that you’ve let yourself go. Think, are you letting yourself go, or are ou letting yourself live??
  4. Should have found your dream job. Never feel like you’ve fail at life just because you having found you dream job. Remember, you don’t have to have you entire career mapped out.
  5. Own your very own property. You should never just do it because you see everyone elses tweets and instagram pics.
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  1. Be finanically savvy. It doesn’t matter good you are at keeping all of your recipes and organising invoices, tax returns.
  2. Get Botox to prevent those wrinkles – Yeah sure it prevent the wrinkle ….blah blah blah but your face is your rules. Don’t feel the need to doing anything that you’re not comfortbale with.
  3. Own your own dog. Ideal you should have a house with a garden and we all know how rare they are.
  4. Can’t make mistakes. No slip-ups must happen once your in the ‘Overs’.
  5. You must has a 5 year plan ready and waiting, LOL! If the last two years are anything to go by, living in the present is all we can do really. Tomorrow is never guaranteed.
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  1. You have to say ‘yes’ to everything. ‘No’ is a complete answer whether you 20, 30, 40 or beyond.
  2. Going to look like when you did at 18. Be realistic as faces, bodies and skin in general – it all changes.
  3. Start up on your own business. Ray Kroc created McDonald’s when he was 52. Take the risk and connect with your entrepreneurial spirit whenever you feel like your soul demands it.
  4. You have to lose weight before your wedding. Remember the dress needs to fit you, instead of you needing to fit the dress.
  5. You have to stop wearing clothes that make you feel happy. Never feel like you have to stop wearing your favourite pair jeans. Wear what you want. Wear what makes you feel happy.
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  1. Love your body unconditionally. Yeah that okay to merely accept your body as an ever-changing, fluctuating form. Your body is an instrument not an ornament.
  2. You need to settle down before your 30. Whoever said that you have to freeze your eggs and stop living care-free and having fun.
  3. You need to have children. Your are child-free not child-less.
  4. Master the art of cooking. Firstly, if you’ve got a roast dinner or spag bol in the recipe book, then you will go very far. But if you fancy expanding you cooking skills for when you host dinner parties or gathering, then book in for some classes and have fun with it.
  5. Finally master TikTok. Enjoying it from a far is as good as catching the vibe gets.
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